Distinctions
Burnout or depression? Why the distinction matters
They overlap enough to be confused and differ enough that confusing them costs you months. Where the line sits, and what to do on either side of it.
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Why this question is worth asking properly
This page is not a diagnostic tool and cannot be one. Reset Coaching involves no diagnosis, and anyone who tells you what you have from a web page is selling something.
But the question comes up in almost every first conversation, so it deserves an honest treatment rather than a deflection — particularly because Ola has been on both sides of it. She went through burnout and severe depression in 2017, which is how she came to this work at all.
Where they overlap
Substantially, which is the whole problem. Exhaustion that rest does not fix. Flatness where interest used to be. Difficulty with ordinary tasks. Sleep that does not restore. Withdrawal from people. A sense of being at a distance from your own life.
If you are working from a symptom list, you will not separate these reliably, and you should stop trying to.
Where they differ
The more useful distinction is not symptom-by-symptom but contextual.
- Burnout tends to be situation-bound. Away from the demand, capacity returns — briefly, incompletely, but noticeably. The flatness is strongest in relation to the work.
- Depression tends to travel. It comes on holiday with you. Things you genuinely love produce nothing, regardless of context.
- Burnout is usually about depletion. Depression more often carries a change in how you see yourself and your future.
These are tendencies, not tests. Plenty of people have both, and prolonged burnout can develop into depression, which is one reason waiting it out is a poor strategy.
Why it matters practically
Because the right first instrument differs.
If this is clinical depression, that belongs with a clinician, and coaching is not the intervention that should come first. Reset is explicitly not designed for mental-illness contexts and is not appropriate for people in psychological or psychiatric distress. Ola says this on her method page rather than burying it, and she will say it to you on a call rather than take the booking.
If this is burnout — a nervous system held in alert long enough that recovery has stopped converting — then burnout recovery work is the relevant work, and the threshold is the thing to address rather than the reserve.
If you are not sure
Two things, in order.
See a doctor. Not as a formality, and not instead of anything else. Some of what presents as burnout is thyroid, anaemia, sleep apnoea or something else entirely, and none of that responds to regulation work.
Then have the conversation. Working out which of these you are dealing with is a legitimate use of fifteen minutes, and it is the kind of question Ola would rather answer honestly than convert.
Sometimes a person is too deep in burnout for coaching to be the right instrument and needs clinical or physiological support first. That gets said in the first conversation.
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Reading about regulation is not the same as feeling it.
A first conversation with Ola is fifteen minutes, free and confidential.
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